Match Finder
Step 1 of 7
Step 1 of 7
Let's start with the basics
A few quick facts about you so we can calculate your match pool accurately.
♂Man
♀Woman
⚧Other
⇄Straight
🌈Gay / Lesbian
∞Bisexual
⚧Queer / Other
Straight men are matched against the women's pool.
Base pool: ~130M women in the US
Step 2 of 6
A little about you
This helps us give smarter suggestions if your pool is too small.
1 = well below average, 5 = average, 10 = exceptional
Tap to rate yourself
High school
Some college
Bachelor's degree
Graduate degree
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Your personal profile
This is what others see when they check if you're a mutual match. Be honest — it only helps you find real compatibility.
5'10"
5'10"
Slim
Athletic
Average
Curvy / Full
Plus-size
Non-religious
Christian
Catholic
Jewish
Muslim
Other
Very liberal
Liberal
Moderate
Conservative
Very conservative
Omnivore
Vegetarian
Vegan
Non-smoker
Former smoker
Current smoker
Non-drinker
Light / social
Moderate
Heavy
No kids
Have kids
Want kids
Childfree
No pets
Dog owner
Cat owner
Other pets
Long-term relationship
Casual dating
Marriage-minded
Open relationship
Independent / nuclear
Close-knit family
Extended family lifestyle
Balanced
Career-first
Family-first
Travel & experiences
Spiritual growth
Balanced spender
Saver
Free spender
Investor mindset
Ambivert
Introvert
Extrovert
Balanced
Natural talker
Natural listener
Talk it out immediately
Need time to cool down
Conflict avoider
Logic & problem-solver
Balanced
Homebody
Very social
Events & nightlife
Moderately ambitious
Contentedly stable
Highly driven
Entrepreneurial
Moderate
Active (3×/week+)
Low activity
Middle ground
Early bird
Night owl
Fire (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius)
Earth (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn)
Air (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius)
Water (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces)
Step 4 of 7
Now — who are you looking for?
Steps 4–6 are about your ideal match. Set physical ranges below. Wider ranges = larger pool.
25 – 45
25
45
5′0″ – 6′0″
5′0″
6′0″
What's the lowest you'd consider attractive enough?
Any
Slim
Athletic
Average
Curvy
Plus-size
Any
None
Some
Heavily tattooed
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Lifestyle & values
These filters often matter most for long-term compatibility.
Any income
$0
$500k+
Any
High school
Some college
Bachelor's
Grad degree
Any
Non-religious
Christian
Catholic
Jewish
Muslim
Other
Any
Very liberal
Liberal
Moderate
Conservative
Very conservative
Any
Omnivore
Vegetarian
Vegan
Any
Non-smoker
Former smoker
Current smoker
Any
Non-drinker
Light / social
Moderate
Heavy
Any
No kids
Has kids
Wants kids
Childfree
Any
No pets
Dog owner
Cat owner
Other pets
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Compatibility & personality
Inspired by global matchmaking traditions — these traits predict long-term compatibility.
Any
Casual dating
Long-term relationship
Marriage-minded
Open relationship
Any
Independent / nuclear
Close-knit family
Extended family lifestyle
Any
Career-first
Family-first
Balanced
Travel & experiences
Spiritual growth
Any
Saver
Balanced spender
Free spender
Investor mindset
Any
Talk it out immediately
Need time to cool down
Conflict avoider
Logic & problem-solver
Any
Homebody
Balanced
Very social
Events & nightlife
Any
Contentedly stable
Moderately ambitious
Highly driven
Entrepreneurial
Any
Natural talker
Natural listener
Balanced
Any
Introvert
Ambivert
Extrovert
Any
Fire (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius)
Earth (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn)
Air (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius)
Water (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces)
Any
Active (3×/week+)
Moderate
Low activity
Any
Early bird
Middle ground
Night owl
Your results
Here's your match pool
Based on your preferences across all filters.
Odds of finding your match
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calculating...
People who match
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in the US
% of adults
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of women
Filter breakdown — what's narrowing your pool
How mutual matching works
Step 1 — Generate your profile link below and post it anywhere: a dating subreddit, Facebook group, or a match board site.
Step 2 — Someone who finds your link fills out their own profile here, then pastes your link into the checker below.
Step 3 — If you both fall within each other's preferences, it's a mutual match. They reach out to you on the platform where they found your link — no personal info ever exchanged here.
🤝 Step 2 — Found someone's link? Check if it's mutual
Paste their MatchFinder profile link below. We'll instantly check if you fall within their preferences AND they fall within yours.
They accept you:—
You accept them:—